Daayra is an Urdu word which means circle. At the same time it can also mean limit or limitation. So why today I am discussing about this ?
Let’s discover, what boundary means to me.Previously I used to believe that .. we all knew exactly what went into good relationships. We all know how to have a healthy emotional relationship with someone. I was pretty sure with my beliefs & then ‘ life happens’.
I saw major cracks in others relationships and encountered persons dragging around past wounds and bringing trauma into their current relationships. I wonder how easily lovers travel back to their worst relationships without even thinking once, to what extent it can damage their present moment.
Stop it! It’s a game changer.
You need to set your limit.
There is a big difference in between
“Being free and being fool”
Why a boundary is indeed ?
” Kyunki har chiz ki ek limit hoti hai”
” Kisi bhi chiz ki ati, khatarnak sabit hoti hai”
Loving doesn’t means, there are no more Boundaries.
You both trusted each other.
this is what we call , two bodies, a soul.
Not two souls & a single body. Stop there.
Boundary is a line; the line, where your fantansies ends and reality begins. More important your own personal boundary, and this is what we call self control. It differences what belongs to whom. “Boundaries are like air”, one can’t see it, but surely can feel. It’s untouchable but you will definitely realise when someone touches you wrongly. Stop it. Even if you are lovers.
Whenever a person tries to control you,to get close, or asks you to do something you think incorrect, you feel a sense of confusion. That confusion is your boundary.
The senses says,
“I belong to me and to those whom I wish.”
Listening to yourself, keeping emotionally, spiritually, mentally, and physically safe.Boundaries keep good things in,& bad things out.
“When we don’t set limits, unknowingly we expose ourselves to wrong paths & persons. The moment may go easy,What left difficult is the guilt.”
YOU and only you, are responsible for what is inside your boundaries. It is important to be clear about your expectations,being honest is good.No matter you are married or single,we all desire healthy & safe relationships.True lovers desire bare & life-changing relations. Healthy boundaries are as important as loyalty.
So let’s walk out of others boundaries & set ours.